As parents and educators, one of our most important responsibilities is to help young children develop the skills they need to understand and manage their own emotions. Teaching preschoolers to manage their emotions effectively has a profound impact on how well a child manages growing up and life as an adult.
Continue reading to learn about the importance preschoolers learn to recognize and manage their emotions, how you can positively reinforce children’s efforts to manage their emotions, and the method I used with these preschooler emotion star charts to support to notice and reward preschool efforts.
Teaching preschoolers to manage their emotions goes far beyond teaching kids what acceptable behavior is. Providing kids the tools they need to recognize and manage their emotions provides them with a life long skill. While preschoolers have easy and obvious rules to follow when they are young, not every social situation is black and white.
The Importance of Recognizing and Rewarding Emotional Management in Preschoolers
Not every emotional response is predictable because the nuance of every social situation isn’t easy to understand. Throw into the mix that every child has different strengths. Society is busy telling children what they cannot do.
We forget to point out and tell children “do more of that”. That’s why I came up with the star chart, as it allows both the educator and the child to celebrate small successes.
Recognizing and validating preschoolers’ emotions is an essential component of their emotional development. Preschoolers are still learning to regulate their emotions and may struggle to understand and express their feelings.
As parents and educators, it is crucial to acknowledge and validate their emotions to help them feel heard and understood. By recognizing their emotions, children feel validated, and this builds their skills and confidence.
When preschoolers recognize their emotions, they can understand them. When they understand their emotions, they can manage them. This sets them up for success.

Positive reinforcement rewards desired behavior so it will be repeated. In child development, positive reinforcement is helpful for encouraging behavior and children learn to manage their emotions and gain confidence.
By recognizing and rewarding positive behaviors, preschoolers are more likely to continue those behaviors and develop a sense of accomplishment.
Recognizing and Rewarding Preschoolers Emotional Management:
Emotion cards and star charts are a great positive reinforcement tool to enhance emotional management in preschoolers. The benefits of using these tools include increased motivation to learn and participate in activities, improved self-esteem and confidence, reduced tantrums and challenging behavior, and the development of positive social skills such as sharing and cooperation.
By recognizing and rewarding children’s emotional management skills using the Preschooler Emotion Star charts and the Unicorn Emotion Cards, preschoolers gain higher confidence and a sense of happiness.

How to Use the Unicorn Cards with the Preschooler Emotion Star Charts:
- Introduce the concept of unicorn themed emotion faces as a fun and accessible tool for teaching preschoolers about emotions.
- Offer examples of different emotions calm, happy, worried, curious, scared, angry, sad, bored, excited and cheerful
- Incorporate unicorn emotion cards into daily activities and conversations, such as during story time or playtime.
Empowering with Preschooler Emotion Star Charts for Positive Reinforcement
Star charts are a useful tool for recognizing and rewarding positive behavior in preschoolers, and can be particularly effective when it comes to emotional management. By introducing children to the concept of emotions through colorful and engaging unicorn emotion cards, preschoolers begin to understand and name their own feelings, as well as those of their peers.
Once they have a basic understanding of emotions, the use of preschooler emotion star charts provide a visual and interactive way for preschoolers to track and celebrate their own progress in managing their emotions.
By recognizing and rewarding positive behavior using these fun preschooler emotion star charts, children experience a sense of accomplishment and pride, leading to increased confidence and continued success in managing their emotions.

How to Use the Preschooler Emotion Star Charts:
- Learning Emotion Words: Each student receives a star chart and colors a star in when they recognize an emotion card and/or name the emotion.
- Expressing Emotion: Each student receives a star chart and colors a star when he or she expresses their emotion appropriately (emotional regulation).
- Small Groups/Siblings: The group or siblings receive a star chart and color a star for whatever emotion or behavior the teacher or parent stipulates. For example: “You chose to be happy to wait instead of getting mad, or you chose to be calm and wait instead of getting mad.” This allows them to bond through success of emotional management.
Recognizing and rewarding positive emotional management in preschoolers can have a significant impact on their overall development, including their academic performance, social skills, and self-esteem. The use of unicorn-themed emotion faces helps children understand and name their own feelings, and the use of star charts as a visual and interactive tool encourages positive behavior and provide a sense of accomplishment and pride.

By using these printable tools with a fun theme of unicorns and stars, preschoolers develop better emotional regulation and problem-solving skills, increase resilience, and develop healthy relationships with peers and adults.
By investing in their emotional development through recognition and positive reinforcement, we can empower our children to become successful and confident adults.
Let’s empower our children by recognizing and rewarding their emotional management skills using unicorn-themed emotion cards and star charts. Together, we can create a positive and supportive environment for our children to grow and thrive.
Unicorn Cards and Preschooler Emotion Star Chart Download
Try out these cards and charts by downloading and printing the document below! Feel free to share your experiences and feedback with me!
If you would like more fun emotional printables to help your preschoolers recognize their emotions, check out my free feelings printable game that goes with the “I feel like a mouse” book, an easy way for toddlers and preschoolers to identify their feelings.